FR | Pre-engagement Mentoring Request

Are you seriously dating and considering marriage? We have a team of mentors who are able to come alongside you in discerning if engagement is the right next step for you and your significant other.

Your name *

Email address *

Phone number *

Birthdate *

Address *

Do you attend Church of the City? *

If so, how long have you attended? *

Are you a COTC Stakeholder? *

Please share any involvement you've had with COTC ministries outside of Sunday service (e.g. serving, community group, events, etc.). *

Name of Significant Other *

Length of Relationship *

How and where did you meet your significant other? *

What leads you to seek pre-engagement mentoring? *

What are three strengths you have as a couple? *

What are three areas you could grow in as a couple? *

What differences between you and your significant other concern you the most? *

Describe your relationship with God at this time in your life? *

Do you and your significant other share a similar level of spiritual commitment and passion? How does that express itself in your relationship? *

How do you (honestly) feel about your significant other's spiritual life? From your perspective, what are his/her strengths and in what areas would you like to see growth? *

Is there anything specific about your relationship you'd like to explore with mentors? *

Are you and your significant other living together? *

Are you presently engaged in physical/sexual intimacy? *

Is there anything else that would be helpful for us to know? *

I affirm that these answers are honest and truthful, and I authorize the COTC pastoral team to release this information to our assigned mentors? *